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Wonderful article!! Spot on!! There really is a difference between someone who’s “been to a lot of places” and a well-traveled individual.

Going to out-of-the-way/off-the-beaten-path places (both near and far) - and at off-season times - helps avoid the throngs of tourists.

Homestays or Airbnbs at a local’s home are also a great idea.

I have so many stories about neat and unique things I experienced because of either staying with or making an effort to talk to locals!

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I loooove that description of “been to a lot of places” vs being well-travelled. Because travelling far is now much more accessible, it’s become like a checkbox and move on to the next place. I even notice people using checkboxes on to describe the cities they “hit” when travelling around a country.

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Nailed it with this piece. Cannot stand the words content and content creators. I actually work in one of the largest tourist area in the US. Seeing the people daily not exploring their surroundings but looking at screens and looking for the perfect Instagram photo. Well done.

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Thank you so much! It makes me really sad because taking videos of absolutely everything cheapens the memory - I fully believe things that are experienced without a phone camera stay with us longer - even if the details become fuzzy over time.

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Exactly.!

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So pleased to read more of your writing! And I love this post! My son sometimes reminds me to put my phone down and enjoy the moment. On holidays, I find taking a separate camera helps curb the urge to share and helps to foster real relaxation!

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Separate camera is such a good idea! Bring back camcorders! 🎥 And thanks so much Rachael 🫶🏻

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On a recent trip to NZ I took the tranzalpine railway, which is meant to be one of the most beautiful railway trips in the world (and pretty expensive). The amount of people on that train who spent the entire trip looking at their phone instead of outside was crazy to me. There was an open air viewing deck and for most of the trip it was only myself and one other person out there - not to set myself apart here because part of being out on the viewing deck was to take better photos ahaha, but still it really made me think about how consumable these experiences are to us now. Just a thing to tick and take photos of to prove we did it, but not even really seeming to care about the experience itself. Loved this piece!

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I whole heartedly concur with this, I love your writing and perspective, thank you Caoilainn.

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Literally. I challenged myself to walk every day without whipping up my phone to snap beautiful pics, appreciating life and the scenery as they are. Yes I take some pictures of what I cook, eat, and places I visit, but I'm trying to exercise restraint from posting too much.

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